Everyone desires a perfectly symmetrical face; however, true beauty does not stem from such symmetry. In my practice, I frequently encounter patients who wish to correct their facial shape through Botox or cosmetic procedures to achieve a more refined, symmetrical appearance. Some even ask me to examine their jaw muscles and request targeted injections on one side in pursuit of so-called perfect symmetry. However, it is rather unrealistic to expect complete symmetry and flawlessness in the body. Each of our faces has unique features, and those “asymmetrical” traits are what give our faces distinctiveness and personality.
If a face is altered to achieve perfect symmetry, it may lose its inherent charm. This is because a slight asymmetry makes a person appear more relatable and is often more eye-catching. People have an inherent affinity for the “perfect imperfect,” which means we do not need to chase after an astonishingly perfect appearance.
Some individuals hold overly narrow views on aesthetics and often attempt to mimic the looks of certain celebrities, resulting in unnatural “monstrous” appearances. This excessive cosmetic alteration leaves me feeling helpless because each face that has been excessively molded tells me that the essence of true beauty has been destroyed in the relentless pursuit of standardization.
If one were to apply the “golden ratio” in shaping a patient’s appearance, the results may often lead to awkwardness and a loss of uniqueness. Every facial shape possesses its own specific beauty, and there is no need to completely rely on celebrity looks to reshape oneself. True attraction lies in confidence and one’s innate personality. If we strive to imitate others instead of discovering our own strengths, we risk losing ourselves and becoming ordinary.
Beauty is not only determined by appearance but also by a person’s expressions and emotions. Sometimes, when I look at photos of certain ordinary people, their confident smiles reveal their unique beauty to me. This glow of confidence often far surpasses that of surgically perfected faces. True beauty is often connected to a smile, a gaze, or even a small gesture; these natural expressions convey warmth and authenticity.
In response to patients’ requests, that little bit of asymmetry and “imperfection” does not need to be blindly corrected. It is a fundamental characteristic of being human; everyone has slight flaws, and those imperfections actually enhance true beauty. Historically, beautiful women may not have had perfectly symmetrical faces, but their unique charms left a lasting impression.
In summary, true beauty stems from self-acceptance and the confident expression of oneself. Embracing the imperfections within one’s individuality is the path to achieving genuine beauty. I hope that everyone pursuing beauty can find their unique charm along this path, rather than blindly following the prevailing standards.